首先,现代社会的多元化对于什么是成功没有一个统一的说法。我不敢肯定自己是不是成功的,因为一个人的成功与否更多的是你周围的人对你的评价和判断。正如古人所说:“是非审之于己,毁誉听之于人。”的确,毁誉就不是自己能说了算的。再者,我认为所谓的成功在很大程度上取决于机遇、外界的环境等影响,很难在人与人之间进行一种简单的复制。甚至可以说,成功是难以把握的。成功是一种结果,而今天,我更想谈一谈这个过程,也就是 First of all, the pluralism of modern society does not have a unified view of what success is. I am not sure if I am successful or not, because the success or failure of a person is more about the evaluation and judgment of you by those around you. As the ancients said: “It is true that judgments must be made against oneself and that reputation should be heard from others.” Indeed, reputation is not something that one can say for himself. In addition, I think the so-called success depends largely on the opportunities, the external environment and other influences, it is difficult to carry out a simple copy between people. It can even be said that success is difficult to grasp. Success is a result, and today, I would like to talk about this process, that is