家庭教育是人生教育中一个重要的组成部分,它直接关系到人才的培养。衡量家庭教育方式是为人父母普遍关心的问题,也是一个社会问题。在文化传统、社会观念、生活方式以及社会习俗等方面存在诸多不同之处,导致中西方国家在家庭教育方面也存在着许多差异,尤其是苏州这样的城市,正确认识和了解这种差异,对于促进我国当代家庭教育的良性发展有着十分重要的指导者作用和现实意义。分析差异,在这个差异中找到最佳的结合点,借鉴美国一种更加合理,趋于完美的家庭教育方式。 Family education is an important part of life education, which is directly related to the cultivation of talents. Measuring family education is a common concern for parents, but also a social issue. There are many differences in cultural traditions, social concepts, lifestyles and social customs. As a result, there are many differences between family education in China and the West. In particular, cities like Suzhou have a correct understanding and understanding of such differences. Promote the healthy development of contemporary family education in our country has a very important guide and practical significance. Analyze the differences, find the best combination point in this difference, and draw lessons from a more reasonable and perfect family education method in the United States.