先看一个简单的例子:一个小学生要能熟练地打篮球,首先是身体发育成熟,可以跑跳自如。如果他想达到迈克尔·乔丹的控球水平,则必须经过专业的指导和大量的训练。借助这个事例想说明一个道理:在孩子的成长过程中,身体机能的成熟和外部的指导、训练是缺一不可的。而在现实生活中,很多父母往往忽视前者,关注后者。因此,我们提示家长:任何教育都不能急于求成,要学会等待孩子慢慢成长。“等待”包括哪些含义呢?第一,不要超前学习。这是本期“焦点”讨论的话题。一些家长让孩子在幼儿园阶段学习小学课程,以便在上学后占得学习先机。黄河清教授(《家长是孩子学业发展的后备 Take a look at a simple example: a pupil should be able to skillfully play basketball, first of all, the body is mature, you can run freely. If he wants to reach Michael Jordan’s ball possession, he must go through professional guidance and a lot of training. With this example, I want to illustrate the truth that in the process of children’s growth, the development of physical function and external guidance and training are indispensable. In real life, many parents often neglect the former and focus on the latter. Therefore, we remind parents: any education can not rush to success, we must learn to wait for children to grow slowly. “Wait ” Including what meaning? First, do not advance learning. This is the current issue of “focus” discussion. Some parents let their children learn primary school during kindergarten to gain first-hand learning opportunities after school. Professor Huang Heqing ("Parents are children’s academic reserve