前不久,在我写《再别康桥新解》一文时,触及到郁达夫的《志摩在回忆里》一文中给徐志摩的一副挽联“:两卷新诗廿年旧友相逢同是天涯只为佳人难再得;一声河满九点齐烟化鹤重归华表应愁高处不胜寒”。对着“只为佳人难再得”一语,我犯狐疑:难道郁、徐两人对爱情都看得很重嘛?这 Not long ago, when I wrote “No More Kangqiao New Explanation”, I touched on Yu Dafu’s “Shima in the Memory of Memories,” a book to Xu Zhimo’s “Wonderful Couplet”: two old poems of the same year are old friends who meet with the world. It’s hard to get any more; once the river is full of smoke, the nine cranes return to the Chinese table and they should not be overwhelmed.“ In front of the phrase ”only for the beautiful woman is hard to get", I made a suspicious question: Is it true that both Yu and Xu are serious about love?