人世间有幸福的秘诀吗?有,著名语言学家周有光的夫人张允和,就发明了这样三条秘诀。她说“:拥有一个幸福的人生其实很简单,第一是不要拿自己的错误惩罚自己,第二是不要拿自己的错误惩罚别人,第三是不要拿别人的错误惩罚自己。”张允和出生于豪门之家,毕业于上海光华大学历史系。但她命运坎坷,屡遭打击。抗日战争的时候,他们带着儿女颠簸辗转逃到四川,但女儿却因盲肠炎救治无效而不幸夭折,儿子则被流弹把肠子穿了六个洞。 There is the secret of happiness in the world? There are three tips that the famous linguist Zhou Youguang’s wife, Zhang Yunhe, invented. She said “: Having a happy life is actually very simple, the first is not to punish yourself with their own mistakes, the second is not to punish others with their own mistakes, and the third is not to punish others for their own mistakes.” Zhang Yun He was born in a wealthy home, graduated from Shanghai Guanghua University Department of history. However, she was hit hard and repeatedly hit. At the time of the Anti-Japanese War, they escaped to Sichuan with their children bumpy but their daughters died unhappily as a result of ineffective appendicitis and their sons were forced to put six holes in their intestines by ammunition.