一个孩子能不能快乐成长,很大程度上是由家长决定的。没有一个背着千斤重压的孩子,可以不觉辛苦不觉累;也没有在怨声载道中成长的孩子,还能觉得生活是美好的。和父母在一起的日子,是孩子最直接、也最直观接触世界的方式,而这些东西,或许在很多年后,依旧会深深植根在他的心里,从而影响他看待周围人和世界的态度。这些年,看过太多这样的父母:他们总是喜欢把孩子作为自己毕生的心血和一生努力 A child can grow up happy, largely determined by the parents. No child carrying a heavy burden, can not feel tired; nor children grow up in complaints, but also feel that life is beautiful. The days of being with parents are the child’s most direct and intuitive ways to reach out to the world, and many years later, they may still be deeply rooted in his heart, affecting his view of the people and the world around him attitude. Over the years, I have seen too many parents who always like to use their children for their whole life and for their whole life