个例某部副连长平时总喜欢生气抱怨,看谁都觉得不顺眼,对连队分配的任务经常带有抵触情绪,经常借故对战士发一通无名之火,就连接家属的电话也没几句好言语,常常昕到他在电话里对家属咆哮。时间长了,大家见了他就像见了“瘟神”一样躲着。评析上述副连长的表现就是控制不住消极情绪,做不了情绪的主人,而成为情绪的“奴隶”。人不可能永远处在好情绪之中,生活中 A case of a deputy commander usually like to always angry complain, to see who are not pleasing to the eye, the task assigned to the company often with resistance, often sent an unnamed fire on the soldiers by excuse, to connect family members have a few phone calls Good words, often Xin to his family roared on the phone. A long time, we met him like to see the “god of plague” dodging. Comments on the performance of the deputy commander is uncontrollable negative emotions, can not do the emotional masters, and become emotional “slaves.” People can not always be in good mood, life