以前年少,闲来无事,读过一篇张爱玲的小文章《非走不可的弯路》,说的是年轻的时候,她想走一条路,母亲拦住她:那条路不好走。她不信,母亲说我就是从那条路走过来的。她说既然你都走过了,为什么我不能走?母亲说因为那是弯路。她很固执,还是走了。多年之后,看到年轻人再那样走,她也说那是一条弯路。可是年轻人也不听,还是要继续走! A few years ago, I was busy with nothing. I read a small essay by Zhang Ailing, “A must for detour.” When she was young, she wanted to go one way and her mother stopped her: it was a bad way to go. She did not believe her mother said that I came from that road. She said since you’ve all been gone, why can not I go? Mother said because it is a detour. She is very stubborn, or left. Years later, she said that it was a detour when she saw young people going that way. But young people do not listen, or continue to go!