“如果你有一个苹果,我也有一个苹果,我们彼此交换苹果,那么你和我仍然是各有一个苹果。但是,如果你有一种思想,我也有一种思想,而我们彼此交换思想,那么,我们每人将有两种思想。”这是英国剧作家乔治·萧伯纳曾经说过的至理名言,它告诉我们人类是在相互交流、相互促进中发展起来的。可见,交流的意义非常重大。而得以让交流顺利进行的一个重要能力就是善于倾听,只有听得清,听得懂,才能收获另一种思想;只有听得清,听得懂,才能有针对性地表达自己的思想。倾听的能力对于成人来说很重要,因为良好的倾听能力能有效地提高人们的生活质 “If you have an apple, I have an apple, we exchange apples with each other, then you and I still have one apple, but if you have one idea, I have one idea, and we exchange ideas with each other, then , Each of us will have two kinds of thoughts. ”" This is the famous saying of George Bernard Shaw, the British dramatist, who told us that humankind has developed in mutual exchange and mutual promotion. Visible, the significance of exchange is very significant. An important capability that allows for the smooth progress of the exchange is to be good at listening to it. Only when we can understand and understand it can we gain another. Only when we understand and understand clearly can we express our own thinking in a targeted manner. The ability to listen is important to adults because good listening skills can effectively improve people’s quality of life