一年多前,广州一个6岁的小男孩,从冰箱取食物时不小心将汤汁洒到地上,就招致身为外企总经理的父亲一阵拳打脚踢,后因颅脑损伤当场死亡。这个悲剧给了我们一个深刻的警示:惩罚,特别是暴力惩罚,不仅不能达到教育目的,容易使小孩产生抵触、甚至反抗情绪,造成一生的心理阴影,严重的还会酿成如上的家庭悲剧。 More than a year ago, a 6-year-old boy from Guangzhou accidentally spilled soup onto the floor while taking food from the refrigerator. As a result, his father, the general manager of a foreign company, was punched and kicked and died on the spot because of a brain injury. This tragedy gives us a profound warning: punishment, especially violent punishment, not only can not achieve the purpose of education, easily lead to conflict with children, and even revolt emotions, resulting in a lifetime of psychological shadow, serious will lead to the above family tragedy.