秘书人员在日常交往中,要懂得必要的礼节和应酬,要做到真挚、坦诚和适度.然而,在现实中,一些秘书人员违背了上述“适度”交往原则,造成了交往中的误区.误区之一:一些领导机关的秘书人员,在同普通人交往中,打着在高级领导机关工作的招牌,能经常接触高级首长,自恃了解上层“内幕、秘闻”,以此为资本,在交往对象面前自吹自擂,摆出一副能办大事的面孔,居高临下,故弄玄虚,制造神秘感,得意忘形溢于言表,以此博得对方的廉价崇拜,以满足个人的虚荣心. However, in reality, some secretary personnel violate the above-mentioned principle of “modest” communication and cause misunderstandings in communication. First, some secretaries of leading organs, in their interactions with ordinary people, have the signboards that work in senior leading organs. They can often contact senior leaders and rely on their understanding of the “insider’s secrets” of the upper class as their capital. In front of boast, put on a face that can do big things, commanding presence, get rid of mystery, creating a sense of mystery, overwhelming, in order to win the other side of the cheap worship, to meet the individual’s vanity.