无论在国内还是境外,人们从来把结婚视为人生一大喜事,恐无异议。然而,前不久我去张家界旅游时,却听说土家族姑娘结婚前都要“哭嫁”。心存疑惑,可我们的小导游就是一位道地的土家族姑娘。或问:“那你出嫁时是不是也要大哭一场?”“当然,岂止是一场!现在我是有空就学哭,还没学会呢。您可别以为哭嫁是件容易事儿。难着啦!”听了土家阿妹的话,大家都乐了。我却更感新奇:人逢喜事却要痛哭流涕,这是怎么回事儿? No matter at home or abroad, people always regard marriage as a happy event in life. However, not long ago when I went to visit Zhangjiajie, I heard that Tujia girls had to cry before marriage. Feeling puzzled, but our little tour guide is a native Tujia girl. Or ask: “Then do you want to cry when you are married?” “Of course, more than just a! Now I am free to cry, have not learned yet. Easy thing. Difficult it! ”Listen to the Tujia Mei sister, everyone is happy. But I feel more novel: people have to cry tears runny things, what is going on?