在我家院子里,常常可以看到这样的情景:两位花白头发的老太太,一个晾晒衣物,一个料理花草;或者一个淘米择菜,一个洒扫庭除……她们有说有笑,各司其职,忙得不亦乐乎。那一派和谐欢乐的景象,常惹来邻居羡慕和赞叹:瞧这亲家俩,多亲热!其实,我和老公刚结婚那阵子,她们的关系并没有这么亲密,而是像大多数亲家一样,客气而疏离。随着孩子的降临,两位老人的关系变得微妙起来。老公是家中长子,对于 In my yard, I often see such a scene: two gray-haired old lady, a drying clothes, a cooking flowers; or a wash rice dishes, a sweep of the court ... ... they talk and laugh, each of its own Job, very busy. In fact, my husband and I just married that time, their relationship is not so close, but, as most of the pro-family, polite And alienated. As the children arrived, the relationship between the two elderly became subtle. Her husband is the eldest son of the family, for